To take a chance

To have people to talk to and talk about is beautiful and it never hurts to give a chance or take a chance.

We have that part/side of us that doesn't just want us to do so many things, like a whole lot of things that could have turned out awesome. Well in this case, that side of you that doesn't want you to talk to a stranger first and that doesn't even want you to talk to anyone at all.
We really should starve that part that is willing to take away our chances with people.

True though, lot of friendships don't work out as planned just as in relationships. Maybe someone's going to end up hurt at the end because things just got out of control. That's part of the irregularities of earth, all which we have to deal with.

You could love someone's fashion enthusiasm and set out to be friends with them, well they become your personal shopper. You could decide to be friends with the girl you met at the ice cream stand because she knows how all the flavors on the menu taste. Literally, we can be in control of picking out the type of friends we want but we are not in control of how the friendship turns out.

You can't pull yourself out of the universe because you are scared of disappointments, it doesn't get that fun. If you don't meet these weird people, what would you laugh about? What's gonna piss you off? Who will give you updates of the feud on twitter? Who will solve one-fourth of your problem and tell you to sleep the rest off? It's a whole lot of experience and it doesn't matter if you have to be let down time after time, just live in every moment and the memories will come naturally.

   "some people show up in our life unannounced,
half of them turnout to be our best buddies and the 
           other half can't be talked about".


                         With love, Aminullah.