The bad energy don't work

It is super weird that when you check people's update these days, you check Instagram, twitter and the others, all you see is people talking about wanting peace of mind.

Really though, it is of course okay to want a drama free + stress free life but it doesn't just happen. You want it? Then make it happen and that includes "not doing" most of the things you'd usually engage in.

Like not being in someone else's business like they pay you to be in it. It sucks a lot of energy to waste even a minute trying to process someone's problem because it ain't yours to worry about to start with. You'd realize that you end up worrying more than the owner of the issue. Hold that! When you want peace of mind, you get other people's issue out of your way because your baggage is enough for you to lift. You don't need an extra load.

When you give peace, you don't get anything less in return. People don't only earn peace by giving money or materials. Give peace through your words to your mates. They don't have to look like Beyonce before they look good to you, they don't have to write like chimamanda before you think they got talent. Compliment every little thing you see about the people close to you so that you can feel good yourself. The only reason you'd want to talk anyone down is because your own insecurities scare the shit outta you and a scared person don't have no peace of mind.

You can imagine someone not telling me they like me skinny but then they be the first to text me when I got fat because they need somewhere to dump the bad energy. There is no evidence of peace of mind in that.

"you don't just talk change into your life,
               you make it happen.
That includes you going out of your way
  to starve the things that suck up your
                    positive vibes."


with love, Aminullah.